Bring me a solution. If Mayhem had a nickel for every time she’s heard that from us … she’d have a LOT of nickels. Because we want her to not just tell us about her problems (or expect us to resolve them), but rather, have her tell us a way…
Mayhem In The Kitchen 
Lemon Scones and Ultrasounds (It’s NOT What You Think!)
The conversations around here are rarely dull. And sometimes, they’re downright gut-busters. Such was the conversation a few days ago, while Mayhem and I were making lemon scones: Mayhem: Mom, did you know I was going to be a girl before I was born? Me: Yep. Mayhem: How did you…
Everyday Mayhem 
Mayhem’s Guide to Retirement
Mayhem. Retirement planning specialist. Last night our dinner conversation went a little like this: Mayhem:When I have kids, I am NOT doing all this work you guys do. Me: You mean like fix your dinner, do your laundry, play with you … that kind of stuff? Her: Exactly! Keith: Well who’s…
Everyday Mayhem 
The Perfect Sprinkler
Spoiler alert: it’s this one – Somewhere, over time, we decided that all new-fangled things are better. If they’re bigger, shinier, more complicated, and have a heftier price tag on ’em, they’re bound to be better, right? Certainly, the same kind of lawn sprinkler that I ran through thirty-three years…
Everyday Mayhem 
Dreamers and Doers
Surround yourself with the dreamers and the doers, the believers and thinkers, but most of all, surround yourself with those who see the greatness within you, even when you don’t see it yourself. ~Edmund Lee A few weeks ago, Mayhem pulled out a gift she received for Christmas last year,…
Everyday Mayhem 
Can You Imagine If We Were Just Getting Started?
Two weeks ago, we had a very last minute change of plans. Originally, we were supposed to be heading out of town on a super fun adventure. One that we were excited to share about along the way. But stuff happens and things come up, and said trip had to…